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Ayurvedic advises on Choosing sex partners
Size of the genital organs
Physical intimacy and sexual relationship between the partners plays an important role and is the most delicate aspect of human life.
Depending on the physical appearance of the genital organs, male and female partners are divided into three categories:
Male – Rabbit (small phallus), Bull (normal sized phallus) and Horse (large sized phallus)
Female – Doe (small genitals), Cow (normal sized genitals) and She–elephant (large genitals)
The ideal match for a satisfying sexual relationship is where the genital organs are well matched, that is ‘rabbit’ with ‘doe’, ‘bull’ with ‘cow’, and ‘horse’ with ‘she-elephant’ . The mismatch may lead not just to disorders but may lead to unhappier life too.
Female partners
Based on the social conditions, the different kinds of female partners who are fit for sexual relationships, according to Ayurvedic texts, are:
1. Spinsters or unmarried women constitute the supreme category.
2. Remarried women are considered to be ‘mediocre’ category sexual partners.
3. Prostitutes form the lowest category of sexual partners.
Male partners
Ayurvedic texts do not distinguish between educated and an uneducated man as far as sexual relationships is concerned. An educated man is not considered a ‘gentleman’ unless he has a legitimate wife. This is because Ayurveda gives primary importance to marriage and sexual life.
Description of the ideal bedroom
1. The house should be situated in a healthy and clean environment.
2. Bed room should have a comfortable cot with soft bed and, preferably, white spreads.
3. The room should be filled with scents and good aroma.
4. Playing soft and soothing music in the bedroom will enhance the sexual experience.
5. Light snacks and drinks may be served in the bedroom.
Women who are not fit for coitus
Ayurveda recommends avoiding the following women for any kind of sexual play and coitus:
1. Lepers
2. Insane women
3. Corrupt women
4. Characterless women
5. Backbiters
6. Women who want to have coitus in broad daylight
7. Stunted women
8. Middle aged women
9. Extremely fair complexioned women
10. Ascetic women
11. A friend’s wife
12. Teacher
13. The wife of powerful people such as the king.
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1/20/12
Spice up your sex life with Ayurveda
“No
Interest in Sex” / “Mechanical sex”/ “boring sex” – these are the common
statements I come across from my patients from the age of 32-42 especially from
working couples and women suffering from early hormonal imbalances and
menopause. Most of them do not realize that sex is not just for physical
happiness but it also plays a vital role in health, wellness and psychological
wellbeing. One of recent surveys says that working couples who have sex more
than twice a week is much happier, healthier and wiser than who does not.
Ayurveda,
the science of life advises three elements as important mediums to sustain life
viz Food, sleep and sex. These three sustaining life elements play a vital role
in health, happiness and wellness. Ayurveda supposed to be the first organized
medical system to talk about sexology which talks much more than the today’s
sexology.
Vajikarana
– The Ayurveda sexology talks in detail about choosing sexual partner, pre and
post sexual regimens, attaining a healthy progeny, different types of mood
spice up ideas and methods for couples and more importantly health and wellness
aspects of sexual life and sex therapies. This specialized department of
Ayurveda addresses the problems of both men and women related to infertility
and all kinds of physical, physiological and psychological reproductive
systemic problems.
Vajikarana basically
comprises of Three components— A Disciplined Life Style, Planned Sexual Act and
lastly, The use of Vajikarana Drugs (Aphrodisiac Medicinal Formulations) to achieve
these Sexual Goals. This particular branch of Ayurveda has stressed on
increasing Will Power and on holding the (Sukra Dhatu) Semen for a longer time.
Sukra Dhatu is directly linked with good Health and Celibacy is equated with
high Morality. To summarize, Vajikarana Chikitsa (Aphrodisiac Medicines,
Anabolic Drugs and Tonics) deals with Sexuality. It talks about Anatomy,
Physiology, Pathology, Diet and Medicines involved in Sex. It states that Sex
should be fenced by rules and regulations in order to maintain good Health and
produce good Progeny.
Ayurveda
therapies to improve sexual life (Both men and women)
This
department of Ayurveda talks about various personalized therapies to improve
sexual desire and pleasure for both men and women and for healthy progeny.
Ayurveda
recommends a specialized 14 day ritual for men and women to improve the
reproductive health before marriage and before planning a health progeny. These
14 day therapies include detoxification, diet, rejuvenation and Vajikarana for
both men and women. The first seven day therapy includes Abhyangam, Pizhichil
and medicated enema and second 7 day therapy include Navara Kizhi and Mamsa
Navara Kizhi for men.
For women
and first seven days therapies are same. Medicated oils are selected based on
the ten essential factors of Ayurveda. Second seven days therapies for women is
more a treatment inclusive of Abhyangam, herbal steam pack, herbal milk wash
etc. Ayurveda, the science of life
recommends these therapies once in 3 years to spice up the sexual life.
For a personalized consultation write to drkgowthaman@gmail.com or call 9940079511
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